I don’t want you to string me along for months and oblige me think we are going to end up in a serious relation when you know perfectly well you aren’t looking for anything serious.
I don’t want to tell my friends legends about you and mention your refer to my parents and stop seeking other chaps who are interested in me, all because I am wrongly convinced “youre feeling” the same way.
I don’t want to look like an schmuck. I don’t want to call you The One, even inside my head, if you are only another person intent on hurting me.
If you are not interested in dating me, do me a praise and rebuff me right off. Tell me know a relationship is never going to happen. Acknowledge that “youre not” scheming on calling me your sweetheart anytime soon because you have other girls who need your attention.
I am sick of being stuck in the middle. I do not want to wonder what we mean to each other. I do not require our label to be complicated. I either want you to be my official sweetheart or I want you to turn me down right now. I don’t want to squander my period chasing when you are if you aren’t looking for love. I don’t want to get my hopes up when you are destined to dishearten me.
Instead of texting me every few eras and commenting on how much you miss me when we go weeks without realizing each other, be more upfront with me. I’m not interested in interpreting mixed signals, because half of the time, I predict them bad. So stop reach gestures that are somewhere in between affectionate and flirtatious that could be taken in two completely different ways.
I don’t want to assume you are crazy about me when you privately couldn’t care less about me. And I don’t want to assume you are out of my tournament when you are privately attracted to me either.
To procreate happenings easier for the both of us, either acknowledge you are interested in dating me and want to see where happenings croak — or tell me you aren’t looking for a relationship. Right now. Don’t wait until we have kissed to give me that report. Don’t wait until I am already invested in the americans and convinced we are going to become an item.
Yes, coming was refused by you is going to sting, but it’s better than finding out you are dating someone different three months from now. Rip the bandage off before it gets attached too tightly to my skin. Stop me from falling for you before my beliefs stretch even stronger. Respect me enough to let me know what you crave from me.
Modern dating wouldn’t suck as much if more parties were upfront about their appears. So either date me or turn me down right now, because I don’t want to keep questioning how “youre feeling”. I want to know for sure.
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